April 22, 2025

BONUS: Are you underestimated? (a conversation with Mary Marantz)

April 22, 2025/ Laura Tremaine

Have you ever felt underestimated? Of course you have. Maybe YOU'VE underestimated yourself (which can somehow feel worse).

My friend and fellow podcaster and author Mary Marantz joins me to talk about her new book Underestimated: The Surprisingly Simple Shift To Quit Playing Small, Name The Fear, and Move Forward Anyway. I just love Mary and love what she has to say about taking our future into our own hands.

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What will help YOU enjoy this season?

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There is a lot of stress in decisions that are not yet made.

That is what this prompt is about. Perhaps it is time to address that issue that is giving you anxiety and weighing on you.

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Happy Thanksgiving, my friends! ❤️ This is my life philosophy every day, but especially through the holiday season.

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Our time is valuable, friends. And this doesn’t have to be a negative prompt. Sometimes taking space from something opens up room for something else, in a positive way.

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Use those five senses for this one. Your space matters, and there is always someone that has to set the tone. Why not you?

Light that candle, put up the tree, DON’T put up the tree, these are all choices you can make now. Think about what you

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