Ep 143: Planning and Paper Planners (with Sarah Hart-Unger)

Ep 143: Planning and Paper Planners (with Sarah Hart-Unger)

We're in the home stretch of 2021 and plans for 2022 are starting to take shape. So I am so excited to welcome Sarah Hart-Unger to the show to talk about planning (rituals, philosophies, and more) and planning tools (paper planners, apps, and books).

Planning and productivity is a side hobby of mine, but Sarah Hart-Unger is much more of an expert. She's a doctor, a mom, a blogger, and has not one but TWO podcasts on these topics.

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Ep 141: 6 Classic Novels You Should Read (with guest Colleen Powell)

Ep 141: 6 Classic Novels You Should Read (with guest Colleen Powell)

I have a running list of classic novels that I want to re-read as an adult or read for the first time because I missed them in high school English class.

If you have the same literary burden, this episode is meant to help you choose a classic that won't be a total bore.

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BONUS: How Influencers are making money off you. (A conversation with Jessica Turner)

BONUS: How Influencers are making money off you. (A conversation with Jessica Turner)

This BONUS episode is for anyone who wants to understand how influencers are making money every time you swipe up, or if you want to learn how to make that money yourself.

The truth is, a LOT of people you follow online, especially if they have any kind of a platform, they are using affiliate links. This can be an important part of your income stream if you are someone who creates content online. And some people are extra smart and savvy about it, like my friend and guest today Jessica Turner, from the blog The Mom Creative.

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Ep 84: Where did we begin? (A relationship origin story with Jeff Tremaine)

Ep 84: Where did we begin? (A relationship origin story with Jeff Tremaine)

This episode is for anyone curious to hear the other angle of an origin story.

It’s our wedding anniversary! This week, Jeff and I celebrate 13 years of marriage, and so I thought it would be fun to have him on the show to share HIS side of our relationship’s origins. This is something I’ve talked and written about for years, but (surprise!) he has a different take.

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BONUS: EBY founder Renata Black

BONUS: EBY founder Renata Black

I am proud to partner on this bonus episode with EBY, a seamless underwear membership co-founded by actress and entrepreneur Sofia Vergara and my guest today, entrepreneur Renata Black.

In our conversation, Renata shares her passion about giving our everyday choices (like buying underwear) real power, and explains how a portion of every purchase of EBY panties or bras becomes part of their Microfinance program, empowering women around the globe with small loans.

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Ep 83: Best Books Lately with Christine Koh

Ep 83: Best Books Lately with Christine Koh

It’s time for another episode about the best books we’ve read lately! This time I'm joined by Christine Koh, an author, speaker, blogger, podcaster, designer, and scientist. Yes, DR. Christine Koh is all of those things, and on this episode she is sharing books that speak to the Asian American experience AND her newfound love of the romance genre.

I'm sharing two books about cults, what I'm reading before I fall asleep at night, and the novel that took me totally by surprise.

So there is a LOT packed into this conversation.

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BONUS: Break the Good Girl Myth with author Majo Molfino

BONUS: Break the Good Girl Myth with author Majo Molfino

This episode is for anyone who struggles with her inner “good girl.”

I read Break the Good Girl Myth: How To Dismantle Outdated Rules, Unleash Your Power, and Design a More Purposeful Life by Majo Molfino this summer and the whole idea resonated with me: identifying as a good girl, wanting to be seen as a good girl, and simultaneously wanting to get out of that trap.

Even at 40-something, I am still dismantling these parts of my identity, and I could see myself - and so many of my friends - in the five different types of “good girls” that Majo writes about.

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BONUS: How to decorate for the seasons without buying more stuff. (A conversation with Myquillyn Smith, The Nester)

BONUS: How to decorate for the seasons without buying more stuff. (A conversation with Myquillyn Smith, The Nester)

Welcome to this BONUS episode of the 10 Things To Tell You podcast, I am so excited to share another author interview, especially because Myquillyn Smith - aka The Nester - has been someone I’ve followed online for YEARS and years, but we had never actually spoken until we recorded!

Myquillyn has influenced the way I think about my home through her blog and then social media and then her books, starting with The Nesting Place, and then the Cozy Minimalist Home, and now, her latest release this fall titled Welcome Home. Her book and our conversation revolves around decorating your home for the SEASONS without buying a bunch of expensive decor that you then have to store, and also signaling to yourself and to your family the cycle of the year - EVEN when you live in Southern California where the temperature doesn’t change much.

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BONUS: How white women can stop avoiding hard conversations. (A conversation with Jenna Arnold)

BONUS: How white women can stop avoiding hard conversations. (A conversation with Jenna Arnold)

In this BONUS episode, Jenna and I talk through a few of the reasons white women statistically stay silent about important issues:

perfection,

performance,

and

peacekeeping.

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Ep 78: Trust your intuition, use your brain. (A conversation with Meg Tietz)

Ep 78: Trust your intuition, use your brain. (A conversation with Meg Tietz)

This episode is for anyone who needs a good, long, catchup with girlfriends.

It's been awhile since we've had a huge dose of girlfriend chat on the show, but great conversations are the driving force of 10 Things To Tell You. In our long overdue conversation, Meg and I each share five things we need to catch up on. We talk loneliness, Real Housewives, true crime obsessions, the perfect amazon purchase, shoes, and intuition.

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Ep 74: Best Books Lately with Sarah Bessey

Ep 74: Best Books Lately with Sarah Bessey

It's time for another episode about BOOKS and this time I'm joined by my good friend Sarah Bessey. Sarah is a writer, speaker, and all around woman of wisdom. She is the author of Jesus Feminist, Out of Sorts, and the spiritual memoir Miracles and Other Reasonable Things. She is also the cofounder of the Evolving Faith conference.

Follow Sarah Bessey on Instagram and Facebook

On this episode, Sarah and I each share the best books we've read lately, including popular novels, Canadian authors that fly under the radar, and social justices resources.

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Ep 71: Kendra Adachi is The Lazy Genius

Ep 71: Kendra Adachi is The Lazy Genius

I am so excited to share this conversation with my friend Kendra Adachi (aka The Lazy Genius) because not only do we talk about being “work friends” and how that narrow relationship title offers us freedom in our friendship, but Kendra also applies her Lazy Genius principles to my problem prioritizing work tasks.

This episode is part friendship, part therapy, part work/life balance.

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Ep. 67: Social Shaming during Covid-19 (A conversation with Kristen Howerton)

Ep. 67: Social Shaming during Covid-19 (A conversation with Kristen Howerton)

This episode is for anyone who has felt shamed or judgmental over choices made during the global pandemic.

Admit it: you’ve either hidden your own activity or judged other people’s choices in the last few months. I’m joined by blogger, podcaster, and author Kristen Howerton (who you may know from her blog Rage Against the Minivan or from her weekly self-care podcast Selfie) to discuss the social shaming that we’re doing and feeling during this unprecedented season of the coronavirus.

PRE-ORDER Kristen’s new book Rage Against the Minivan (Out June 9!)

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Ep 65: Summer Reading Guide with Anne Bogel of Modern Mrs Darcy

Ep 65: Summer Reading Guide with Anne Bogel of Modern Mrs Darcy

This episode is for anyone who is excited for summer reading!

I am so excited to welcome Anne Bogel, three-time author, blogger at Modern Mrs. Darcy, podcaster at What Should I Read Next? and someone who reads more books than anyone else I know!

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Ep 63: Working from home (A conversation with Emily P Freeman)

Ep 63: Working from home (A conversation with Emily P Freeman)

This episode is for you if you are working from home right now and need some tips or mindset shifts to be less distracted and more productive.

My guest is Emily P FreemanThe Next Right Thing author and podcaster. Her work-from-home structure of Theme Days is something I adopted months ago and on this episode we talk about her approach to this schedule and how she's modifying it during the Covid 19 stay-at-home orders. 

We also talk about the things that we're measuring to feel accomplished, and how social media is making us feel right now when our main connection with the outside world is the internet.

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Ep 55: Living Abroad with Kids (10 Takeaways with Julie Stillwell)

Ep 55: Living Abroad with Kids (10 Takeaways with Julie Stillwell)

This episode is for you if you've ever dreamed of living abroad with your family for a year. 

I've been dying to share this conversation with my dear friend Julie. In 2018, Julie Stillwell and her husband Tom took their two young daughters to live in Amsterdam for one year. All four had lived in Los Angeles their whole lives, so this was a family adventure with a hundred takeaways.

We talk about the logistics of moving abroad and the emotions of both leaving and adjusting. We talk living without a car and sending their kids to the International School. We talk about style and food in Amsterdam versus the United States. We talk about why life seems simpler and slower in this part of Europe, and how temporary absence can actually deepen relationships.

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Ep 54: Best Books Lately with Jessica Turner + A Conversation about American Dirt with Stephanie Newman-Smith

Ep 54: Best Books Lately with Jessica Turner + A Conversation about American Dirt with Stephanie Newman-Smith

This episode is for you if you love to read (and follow literary controversies).

Book episodes are the best episodes! We spend the first half hour talking about the best books we've read lately with Jessica Turner, and we take a brief detour to talk about #Bookstagram and our current reading habits (including a new hobby Jessica picked up and the #ReadYourBooks challenge she's hosting online).

In the second half of this extra long episode, I'm joined by my real-life book club friend Stephanie Newman-Smith to talk through the layers of controversy around the novel American Dirt by Jeanine Cummins. We talk about who can tell what stories, how the publishing industry is complicit in silencing non-white voices, and the bizarre marketing missteps around the novel that Oprah picked for her book club.

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Ep 48: Should we post our kids on social media? (A conversation with Nish Weiseth)

Ep 48: Should we post our kids on social media? (A conversation with Nish Weiseth)

This episode is for you if you’ve ever second-guessed posting photos of your kids online.

Nish Weiseth - a friend I met through mommy blogging years ago - recently posted on Instagram that she was going to take a step back from posting her family online, because her kids are getting older and she started questioning her own motivations. I thought her take was really interesting, so I reached out and asked her to have a friend-to-friend conversation on this topic…publicly.

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Ep 46: Book Club 2019 (Best, Worst, and Buzziest Books of the Year)

Ep 46: Book Club 2019 (Best, Worst, and Buzziest Books of the Year)

It’s the most wonderful time of the year! Allllll the Best Of book lists are rolling out and of course I have to throw my two cents in.

This episode is a conversation with two friends from my real life book club, Yasmin Dunn and Stephanie Newman-Smith. We are discussing the best, worst, and buzziest books of the year and we have a LOT of words.

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